L to R: Pamala Reese, Mary Hargaden,
Colette St Cyr, Sarah Law, Deirdre Holler, Shirley Radican, addie Johnson.
The AACCW ladies are receiving a certificate from Pamala Reese for our
40 years of giving parties at the Milledgeville Hospital
A Story of Dedication and Love over a 40 year period
Atlanta Archdiocesan Council of Catholic Women has sponsored the Chit-Chat
Parties at Central State Hospital, Milledgeville, GA. since 1968.
Three parties were started in 1968-February: the Have-A-Heart Party- sponsored
by the N.E. Deanery; May: the Have-A-Smile /Older Americans Party sponsored
by the South Deanery and October: the Fall Fiesta sponsored by the N.W.
Deanery.
The Women’s Guild of Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church in Atlanta
had been sending, through the DeKalb Sheriffs Department, Birthday cakes
to the Volunteer Services at Central State Hospital each month. Eventually,
we decided to contact the Hospital to determine if we could perform a more
meaningful service for the Residents (Patients). Our question was answered
by Jane Haddock. Jane was the Director of the Volunteer Services, and suggested
a way that we might interact with the Hospital Residents. The IHM group held
their first Chit-Chat Party at Central State Hospital, Milledgeville, GA
in February 1968 with four IHM women and about 45 Residents.
That Was The Beginning
Little did we realize how this outreach activity would grow and involve all
the AACCW Deaneries and today, under the direction of President
Joan Brown. and liasions Mary Hargaden and Carolyn McFall.
Now 40 years later, we are still going strong. Thousands of residents, volunteers
(hosts and hostesses) and staff have continued the ”LOVE” project for those
in need, how and when and where they are!!!!!!. We did it and are still doing
it.
At the first party, approximately 40 residents were entertained. We began
playing Bingo and prizes for all were handed out as they won. Special Ditty
Bags containing personal items were handed to each patient as they returned
to their rooms. Many other personal prizes and refreshments of home baked
goods and candies ended the party.
Today some things have changed. The Hospital population has dwindled from
13,000 to approximately 1,200 nursing home residents, children and Rehabilitation
Residents and the number of party guests ranges from 200 to 400 residents.
The Gifts
Many new gift items have been added such as shawls, lap robes for the elderly,
special games and puzzles, books, crafts for the children and young adults,
soft cuddly animals for everyone and special diabetic foods. Bingo games
provide the biggest entertainment. All are winners and plenty of prizes such
as t-shirts, pocketbooks, wallets, lotions, writing supplies, socks, etc. These
items are collected from every source imaginable from very generous Atlanta
people. The volunteers take the time to chat with and help the Folks “play”
and “win” at Bingo. .Many are lucky and win more than once. It’s amazing that
the gifts never give out- until all are happy and satisfied.
These guests are grateful and let us know that they appreciate our visits
and company with smiles and many a thank you. They know that the parties
are a demonstration of the caring, generosity and love of the AACCW Members
who are very much interested in their well being.
Over the years we have been able to fill many odd requests, we collected
over 135 FANS for areas without air-conditioning and drapery fabric to keep
out the summer sun and bicycles' galore and decorations for new Patient rooms.
This was all made possible from generous AACCW members and their friends.
In 1987 the ROSA PARKS AWARD given by THE WOMEN IN COMMUNITY SERVICE was
given to Eleanor O'Connor, originator of the Milledgeville Chit-Chat Parties. An
honor toall the AACCW Membership for their dedication and
service.
Love Goes On
AACCW has responded to Jesus’ command to serve the least
of our Brothers and Sisters.
More Information
Eleanor J. O’Connor
1692 Oak Lane, N.E.
Atlanta, GA
30329-2516 claire1892@bellsouth.net
404-636-3665